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Eutrapelian LandMinds:The Space Delusion: Why Humanity Isn’t Ready for Life Beyond Earth Humanity’s Space Obsession: A Symbol Without Substance? By Boris (Bruce) Kriger

 


EUTRAPELIAN LANDMINDS


The Space Delusion: Why Humanity Isn’t Ready for Life Beyond Earth
Humanity’s Space Obsession: A Symbol Without Substance?

By Boris (Bruce) Kriger 
for 
The Common Sense World



Despite all the noise — the rockets, the media frenzy, the declarations of Mars as our “next home” — humanity’s presence in space remains a symbolic gesture, not a necessary strategy. Behind the smoke of techno-optimism lies a harder truth: we are not, in any meaningful way, leaving Earth. Not because we don’t want to. But because the universe, for all its grandeur, remains terrifyingly indifferent to our dreams.

Few people realize just how much the idea of putting humans in space remains a symbolic act rather than a functional necessity. For all the fanfare of rocket launches and the poetic allure of infinite orbits, one uncomfortable truth stands firm: there is, as of now, almost no compelling reason to send humans beyond Earth’s atmosphere.

Today’s automated systems, satellites, and robotic probes are capable of performing breathtakingly complex tasks without risking a single heartbeat. With every year, these technologies become more efficient, more precise, and less dependent on anything resembling a spacefaring human. The reality is stark: the human body is absurdly ill-suited for space. In an environment where radiation tears through DNA like shrapnel, where any misstep is a death sentence, and where even breathing requires an architectural feat of engineering, the presence of a fragile, living organism feels less like progress and more like reckless symbolism.

To send a human into such an environment is not so different from dropping them into a volcano and calling it exploration. Even the darkest ocean trench, with its crushing pressure and alien darkness, often feels like a more reasonable destination.

And yet, despite the deadly hostility of space, despite the clear superiority of machines in such domains, one element refuses to yield: the human compulsion to go. Not for survival. Not even for science. But for meaning. For conquest. For mythology.

This contradiction — between what is needed and what is desired — lies at the heart of our space obsession. And while today’s technologies mock the need for manned missions, the balance of forces may yet shift.

Even if we consider the direst warnings — catastrophic climate shifts, dwindling natural resources, the urge to transcend the Earth’s limitations, or the fantasy of a breakthrough in interplanetary travel — all of these remain speculative projections of a possible future. None of them, at least for now, constitute an urgent or unavoidable reason to leave our planet behind.

Even in the face of ecological degradation, humanity’s first instinct is not exodus, but repair. We are, after all, a deeply adaptive species. We terraform on Earth already — restoring wetlands, reversing desertification, and engineering new food systems. Compared to the dizzying logistics, astronomical cost, and technical hurdles of creating a viable off-Earth habitat, rebuilding Earth’s biosphere seems not only more plausible, but vastly more rational.

Constructing a fully self-sustaining extraterrestrial environment is not merely an engineering problem — it’s a civilizational moonshot of mind-bending complexity. No known habitat, no matter how advanced, has even come close to replicating the holistic, regenerative cradle of life that Earth offers for free. To dream of abandoning Earth for the stars is like contemplating the demolition of your home because one room is flooded — while simultaneously proposing to build a replica of that home underwater, from scratch, using untested tools.

And let’s be clear: the fantasy of “freedom from Earth” is hollow. In space, there is no liberation — only relentless dependence. Every breath of air, every drop of water, every calorie consumed would be a product of fragile life-support systems. We do not become gods by leaving the planet; we become hostages of our own artificiality. The most powerful rocket does not break our chains — it simply fastens new ones, heavier and colder, forged in the vacuum.

As long as all these scenarios remain theoretical — speculative models unanchored in immediate urgency or viable infrastructure — the idea of mass migration off Earth remains less a strategic imperative and more a grandiose concept wrapped in the illusion of futurism.

To be blunt, there is only one truly inescapable reason for humanity to leave Earth — and it lies in a star’s distant death. The Sun, like all stars, is destined to die. In a few billion years, its bloated, dying body will swell into a red giant, engulfing the inner planets — including Earth — in a final, fiery cremation. That, and that alone, is the cosmic eviction notice that cannot be ignored. But it comes on a timescale so vast, so remote, that to invoke it as justification for present-day space colonization is almost comical.

We are talking about a problem that lies not decades or centuries ahead, but billions of years. Long before then, humanity will have either transcended its current form or quietly disappeared, leaving behind fossils, satellites, or perhaps nothing at all. To treat this distant solar death as a current rationale for colonizing Mars or building moon bases is like constructing lifeboats for a flood prophesied in the next geological epoch.

Any catastrophe short of that — be it climate collapse, nuclear war, or asteroid impact — is still more survivable, more reversible, and more solvable here on Earth than in the sterile hostility of space. No disaster imaginable today makes space migration a more reasonable choice than staying, adapting, and rebuilding.

And so, despite our fascination with the stars, the cold truth is this: we are not a spacefaring species. We are a storytelling one — and space, in all its harsh silence, has become the stage on which we act out our deepest myth of transcendence. But myths are not mandates. And the cosmos, for now, does not call us — it tolerates us, briefly, from the edge of vacuum.

As creatures born of Earth, entwined with its biosphere down to the molecular level, humans remain exquisitely adapted to its conditions — even as those conditions shift under the weight of time, civilization, and planetary forces. We breathe its air, drink its water, feed on its soil’s abundance, and bask in just the right kind of sunlight. No matter how advanced our technology becomes, no engineered habitat will ever replicate the seamless generosity of this planet, which has nourished us without asking to be worshipped — only respected.

To chase after the vacuum of space, pouring unimaginable effort into crafting artificial surrogates for what we already possess, is not visionary — it is tragic. It is the ecological equivalent of abandoning your garden to die while obsessively trying to grow fruit in a concrete bunker. Instead of fleeing Earth’s imperfections, we should be perfecting our care for it.

Here, on this planet, resources remain — not limitless, but enough. Enough to sustain life if used wisely. Enough to build a regenerative economy, one that honors biological cycles instead of disrupting them. Enough to recover lost balance, to innovate not through escape, but through integration. The future we long for — one of harmony, creativity, and renewal — does not await us on some barren moon. It lies beneath our feet, still whispering possibilities through forests, rivers, coral reefs, and even deserts.

To turn away from that — in favor of the illusion of cosmic independence — is not courage. It is cowardice wrapped in tinfoil and launched with fanfare.

Humanity has always met its trials not with retreat, but with resourcefulness. Faced with shifting climates, tectonic technological upheavals, or the pressures of population density, we have responded not by abandoning our ground — but by reinventing it. Each challenge, far from being a final blow, has often served as a springboard for innovation. Earth, for all its volatility, remains the only known canvas broad and rich enough for such transformation.

If the day ever truly comes when we must leave Earth, it will not be because of fear, or prophetic dread, or the inflated rhetoric of visionary billionaires. It will come when the physics of the cosmos leaves us no other option — when our sun begins its terminal expansion and the countdown to planetary extinction becomes a matter of fact, not fantasy. Until that moment, every argument for departure collapses under the weight of Earth’s remaining viability.

And what of those much-feared disasters — the asteroid, the bomb, the pole reversal? None of them, for all their dramatic potential, justifies exodus. An asteroid akin to the one that felled the dinosaurs would be devastating — yes. Crops would fail, skies would darken, ecosystems would fracture. But life on Earth has walked that path before. It didn’t vanish. It adapted. Mutated. Re-emerged. Humanity, should it survive the initial blow, would do the same: burrowing underground, building sealed habitats, decentralizing survival into the last viable biomes. Not pretty. Not easy. But possible.

Even nuclear winter — the great specter of the 20th century — cannot strip Earth of its fundamental capacity to host life. With planning, technology, and the fierce will to endure, people would rebuild. They would navigate radioactive wastelands, repopulate greenhouses in mountain bunkers, and forge new systems of society in the ash. The cost would be incalculable. But the game would not be over.

And a magnetic pole reversal? That’s not even a catastrophe in the classical sense. It’s a slow dance of the planet’s magnetic heart — disruptive, yes, but survivable. It’s happened before. Birds will be confused. Satellites may suffer. But the biosphere does not vanish.

The point is simple: none of these feared scenarios carry that special quality of irreversibility — the one necessary to justify the complete abandonment of our planetary home. Earth remains, by far, the most habitable and accessible place in the known universe. Every one of these apocalyptic images, no matter how vivid in our collective imagination, is in fact a call not to flee, but to fight, to adapt, to heal.

Space offers no refuge from difficulty. It offers only displacement — and a much harsher test of survival. For now, for the foreseeable future, and quite possibly forever, Earth is not our prison. It is our sanctuary.

For now, space remains a theater — not of habitation, but of performance. It is where nations stage political rituals, where companies brandish innovation for shareholders, and where the presence of a human — helmeted, flag-bearing, camera-ready — serves more often as a symbol of dominance than a node of utility. Behind every mission profile lies a dual agenda: not just science, but spectacle.

The truth is hard to ignore. If colonizing the Solar System were truly a global objective — embraced with the same ruthless resolve with which Earth’s continents were once charted and claimed — we would not be dreaming of Martian habitats. They would already be there. We would have long since established outposts on the moons of Jupiter, or in the shadowy reaches of interplanetary space. The fact that we have not doesn’t point to technical incapacity, but motivational weakness. Prestige, not practicality, fuels the engines of our cosmic ambition.

Were there, somewhere in our planetary neighborhood, a world even remotely like Earth — breathable air, moderate temperatures, liquid water, tolerable gravity, and a stable magnetic shield — the floodgates would have opened generations ago. History teaches us this clearly: when livable frontiers appear, humanity surges toward them with relentless momentum. Think of the Americas, which became not just a geographical discovery but a mythic symbol — of freedom, reinvention, and escape. Ships crossed oceans not because the voyage was safe, but because the promise on the other side made the risk bearable.

If Venus were a gentle sister to Earth — with fertile valleys instead of acid storms, temperate seas rather than boiling infernos — it would already be adorned with farms and cities. No interplanetary PR campaign would be necessary. The dream would have become a demographic fact. And if Mars had held onto its warmth, its water, and a whisper of a protective sky, it too would be dotted with settlements, not simulations.

But neither planet offers even the minimum hospitality. Venus is hell in drag, and Mars — for all its red allure — is a frozen, oxidized corpse with air so thin it may as well not exist. To survive there requires not courage, but machinery. To build there requires not a pioneering spirit, but a life tethered to systems that can never, ever fail.

And so the dream of conquering other worlds remains just that — a dream. Beautiful, stirring, and, for now, unrealizable. The reality is unyielding: we are still children of Earth, and Earth — flawed, wounded, miraculous — is still the only place in the cosmos that forgives our presence.

This is no fantasy. It is a sober analysis grounded in historical precedent and pragmatic reflection. Across centuries, humanity’s great expansions were never driven by vague dreams alone, but by tangible pressures — scarcity of resources, population strain, political unrest, or economic ambition. What made the Age of Exploration possible was not just courage or desperation, but a reasonable expectation of survivability. No fleet would have set sail for the New World if all that waited beyond the horizon was a lifeless vacuum — no air to breathe, no soil to till, no sun to warm the skin.

When ships began crossing the Atlantic, migration was not a gamble — it was an inevitability. Europe, brimming with internal tensions and limited land, turned to the ocean not out of collective madness, but because the new land promised continuity. It offered atmosphere, water, arable earth, and the possibility of building homes and societies. Families embarked with tools, seeds, and futures, because the land ahead could host them without encasing them in machines.

This is precisely what distinguishes our planetary past from our extraterrestrial ambition. Neither Mars nor Venus, nor any known celestial body, offers even a hint of the ecological hospitality that made historical colonization possible. There is no breathable air. No comfortable climate. No accessible water in liquid form. No soil that welcomes life. Without these foundations, the dream of mass resettlement remains not only technically daunting, but existentially absurd.

Had even one of these conditions been otherwise, we would already be there. This is not idle speculation, but the straight trajectory of human behavior: where life is possible, humanity follows. The absence of migration to nearby planets speaks not of our failure to dream, but of the cosmos’s failure — so far — to offer a second Earth.

Technologically, we’ve arrived. We can cross the void. We can land on other worlds. We can even build temporary shelters on their surfaces. But what awaits us is not a frontier — it’s a laboratory. Every action in space is a simulation of life, not life itself. Every breath must be fabricated. Every drop of water mined and purified. Every seed coaxed into growth by force. There is no organic continuation of Earth in space — only the hollow scaffolding of its memory.

And this is why, despite the cinematic launches and the bold pronouncements, there is no true movement toward the stars. Not yet. Because real colonization is not about flags and footprints — it’s about breathing. Farming. Loving. Dying and being born again — without a spacesuit.

Until we find — or create — a world that greets us with open lungs and open soil, space will remain a monument, not a migration. We don’t need more rocket fuel. We need habitable purpose. Without it, the stars are not our future — they are our mirror, reflecting back our hunger for transcendence, our mythic longing, and the unbearable truth that for now, and perhaps forever, Earth is not merely our home. It is our only possible world.

Space stations, orbital habitats, off-world settlements, even Dyson spheres imagined around distant stars — these are not just speculative infrastructures. They are the future shells of humanity, cast off from the Earth like the armor of tribal life once gave way to cities, roads, and synthetic ecosystems. These vessels, suspended beyond Earth’s gravity, are not merely survival mechanisms — they are crucibles of transformation. Within them, the human form begins to change — not in flesh, perhaps, but in meaning. No longer grounded, we become creatures of artificial rhythm, existing without north or down, without forest or field.

In such a realm, the very language of place dissolves. “Home” ceases to mean foundation and rooftop. It becomes a regulation system — a set of numbers managing pressure, oxygen, and thermal stability. Comfort is no longer the warmth of a fire or a view from a window, but psychological calibration to a volume sealed from the void. A window is no longer a passage for sunlight or breeze, but a black mirror showing nothing but silence. Outside is no longer weather — it is eternity, black and cold, pierced by indifferent stars.

And the difference between a station and a ship? It vanishes. All things in space are always moving, even when still. Every habitat becomes a vector, a node, a loop. There is no final destination, no anchoring arrival — only orbits, transfers, circuits. Each structure is both place and path. Humanity ceases to travel; it becomes travel.

Cosmic architecture, then, is not only a feat of engineering. It is a meditation on perception, on what it means to be in a place without ground, without cycle, without gravity. These designs are not just blueprints — they are existential statements. How do we remain human when the sky is always black, and the floor never touches us? What becomes of beauty, solitude, and variation — the deep, quiet necessities of the soul?

A true book on this subject cannot remain a technical manual. It becomes a manifesto — a metaphysical inquiry into how the mind reshapes itself when it dares to abandon the planetary womb. It is a study not of life support systems, but of life reimagined.

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Deudney, D. (2020). Dark skies: Space expansionism, planetary geopolitics, and the ends of humanity. Oxford University Press.

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Messeri, L. (2016). Placing outer space: An earthly ethnography of other worlds. Duke University Press.

NASA Office of Inspector General. (2021). NASA’s management of the Artemis missions. U.S. Government Printing Office.

National Academies of Sciences, Engineering, and Medicine. (2018). Thriving in space: Ensuring the future of human spaceflight for the United States. The National Academies Press.

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Eutrapelian LandMinds: What Was Scattered Was Not Destroyed By Colin Gillette for FRONT PORCH REPUBLIC

 




EUTRAPELIAN LANDMINDS



What Was Scattered Was Not Destroyed

Churches aren’t offering peace. They’re optimizing for engagement. And what gets built in the end is impressive. But like all “Babels,” it can’t bear the weight of the human soul.


Colin Gillette

July 22, 2025

for


Mega churches have replaced the Good News with a mission statement.

Here in Rockford, Illinois, a Rust Belt city well-acquainted with extraction and abandonment, that line isn’t satire. It’s an observation. You can’t drive across the east side without passing half a dozen colossal church buildings, their parking lots repaved more often than their theology. Inside, you’ll find stage lighting, fog machines, and sermons that sound suspiciously like quarterly business updates. If you drive west, over the Rock River, you’ll pass a dozen smaller sanctuaries. These are the old brick churches with crooked signage and overgrown hedges. The lights are off. The pews gather dust.

In my work as a therapist, I’ve sat with the shepherds of these flocks, who confess, quietly and often tearfully, that the Church is dying. Not changing. Dying. Some say it with a kind of weary relief, as if finally naming aloud what they’ve known for years, but didn’t have permission to speak. Others say it with resignation, their voices thin from holding up too much for too long. They speak of empty pews and aging congregations, of buildings they can no longer afford to heat, and the pressure to stay upbeat and innovate. Many of them have baptized, married, and buried three generations of the same families. What they grieve is not the loss of status or size, but the slow unraveling of something sacred, something that once held people together, and now struggles to hold at all. None of them say it flippantly because they’ve stayed, and love the flock, even as the pasture thins.

It reminds me of what’s happened to the land itself. This region was once a checkerboard of crop rotations and small farms that provided local goods and sustained families. Rockford made things that lasted. Spoken of now almost like mythology, this was the land of the monkey sock, the screw capital of the world, a manufacturing goliath built with many hands. It was a place of quarried limestone, used to build roads and homes with local stone and labor. Then the quarries closed. The factories shuttered. The fields gave way to monocrops, and the people were left to wander inside the skeleton of something that once provided. And now I see it happening again—this time in the sanctuary. Congregations are being mined for tithe, for clout, for spectacle. Rock bands and prosperity gospels work the crowd while the till stands open, not to offer, but to receive.

The Church has begun to mimic the economic logic of the industry that abandoned it. Build bigger. Consolidate. Extract. Move on. What follows isn’t meant to be a eulogy, exactly. It’s a reflection, maybe even a small lament. A slow walk around the ruins of Babel, with some help from Richard Rohr, Maslow, and a few thoughts from the therapy chair. There are still pockets of quiet faith out there. Faith with dirt under its fingernails, content to grow things instead of counting them. But it’s getting harder to hear that voice through the static. If the Tower of Babel was a warning label, we’ve peeled it off the pack and lit the match anyway.

As a therapist, I spend my days listening to people sift through the wreckage of their own lives. They are lives marked not just by trauma or loss, but by confusion. A kind of existential disorientation. They come in asking some of the same questions the builders must have asked when the mortar started to crumble: How did we get here? Why doesn’t anything feel solid anymore? Why doesn’t anyone understand me?

I used to think the Church could still be the place to hold those questions. Once upon a time, it was a vessel that held the complexity, the grief, the beauty, the doubt, and yes, the dogma too, but not as branding, and not as the product of a board meeting. But lately, it seems more interested in managing the brand. These days, the tower doesn’t just reach toward the heavens. It comes with WiFi and a gift shop. There’s a campus map in the foyer, a latte in your hand, and a QR code for online giving projected where the crucifix used to hang.

I’ve sat with pastors and priests in that same confusion, some who’ve grown sick from what they’re serving. “The church is dying,” they whisper. Sometimes they cry. Sometimes they laugh in a way that doesn’t feel right. They’re caught in the middle of an institution that once held the sacred, and now can’t hold much of anything. Certainly not silence. Certainly not a mystery. And in therapy, I see what happens when people have nowhere to put their anguish. It metastasizes into panic, into addiction, into rage. The Church, when it was at its best, offered not just answers, but a place to ask. Now, it too speaks in bullet points and marketing copy.

The builders of Babel wanted to make a name for themselves. I see the same instinct in my consulting inbox: churches asking how to grow their footprint, expand their “reach,” capture a younger demographic. They aren’t offering peace. They’re optimizing for engagement. And what gets built in the end is impressive. But like all “Babels,” it can’t bear the weight of the human soul.

It’s here that the voice of Richard Rohr begins to matter. A Franciscan priest and spiritual writer, Rohr has become a quietly subversive figure in modern Christianity. His work challenges the institutional Church, not with rebellion, but with depth. He critiques its obsession with purity over transformation, certainty over mystery, and control over grace. Though Catholic by vocation, Rohr’s appeal crosses denominations. He has found a massive following among mainline Protestants, evangelicals, and Catholics in spiritual transition, those no longer satisfied with black-and-white answers, but still drawn to the sacred. He writes of descent, paradox, and the long arc of inner change, offering something few religious institutions still know how to hold: permission to fall apart without being lost.

Rohr says we grow spiritually much more by doing it wrong than by doing it right, not as license, but as invitation. The descent doesn’t excuse sin, but neither does it condemn the sinner. It opens the door to the kind of grace that breaks us open and remakes us from the inside. That’s a hard sell in a church culture obsessed with excellence, relevance, and strategic growth initiatives. Failure doesn’t trend. Paradox doesn’t preach. And yet, every mystic worth reading tells us the same thing: the way up is down. Rohr calls it “falling upward.” The idea that transformation doesn’t come from climbing higher but from being stripped of the ladders entirely. We come to wisdom not through conquest, but through surrender. Through the wilderness. Through the kind of quiet that makes you question every illusion you once knew with certainty.

This doesn’t play well on stage. It’s not sexy. You can’t build a satellite campus around it.

But it’s real.

The spiritual desert has always been the crucible where illusions die. In therapy, I see that too. People come in looking for solutions, but what they really need is space. A place to fall apart without being judged or fixed. A place to let go of the performance and admit they’re scared, angry, tired, or lost. Rohr’s genius is that he gives theological permission for that unraveling. He speaks of a God found in the tension between opposites, in the unresolved spaces, in the compost heap of your failed certainties. Rohr doesn’t offer escape. He offers depth, like good soil, not poured concrete. Somewhere beneath that depth runs living water, though not always visible from the surface. And depth, like good soil, takes time and rot.

Contrast that with Babel. There, the goal was altitude, uniformity, and control. The builders didn’t want to know God; they wanted to reach Him. Skip the wilderness. Bypass the wandering. Get straight to heaven, no questions asked. And now? The tower’s been modernized. It has a podcast. You can tithe from your phone while stuck in traffic. The worship team has a brand. And somewhere in the fine print, if you squint past the LED lights and the PowerPoint slides, you might still find the Gospel. But it’s quiet now. It whispers beneath the noise, waiting for someone willing to descend.

In the therapy room, I hear the echoes. No one asks how to self-actualize. They ask why they feel numb, why the anxiety will not go away, why success does not satisfy, or why their relationships feel like transactions. They are not chasing the top of a pyramid. They are trying to understand what broke, and whether anything real can grow in its place. Still, Maslow’s hierarchy lingers on classroom posters, in HR manuals, as a model for a certain kind of growth. Food, safety, love, esteem, and then self-actualization: the “you” you were meant to be, fully realized once the boxes are checked. It sounds clean. Linear. Reasonable. But the soul does not work that way. Not in the wilderness. Not in Rockford. Not in the hollow places where the old certainties no longer hold.

Maslow charts a path of fulfillment that rises with each rung. But for many I see in therapy, and in the Church, the climb has stopped making sense. They need a path that doesn’t go higher, but deeper. Rohr offers that different ladder, one where the rungs aren’t built from achievement, but from descent. His path isn’t about becoming more of yourself, but becoming less attached to the self you thought you had to be. In his view, the second half of life doesn’t crown the ego; it cracks it open. Maslow points upward. Rohr points inward, then downward, into the muck. The difference is subtle but crucial. Maslow says: You’ve earned this. Rohr says: You’ve been undone, and now something deeper can begin.

In Rockford, that difference shows up in the space between pride and grief. This is a city that once made things, machine parts, fasteners, hard goods with weight and permanence. When that vanished, we didn’t evolve. We mourned, slowly and without permission. The prosperity gospel doesn’t play well here, except in places that pretend the grief never happened. The landscape remembers. It’s a patchwork of rusted factories, cracked sidewalks, and churches that were built to last but now echo with silence. Faith here has to grow low to the ground. It doesn’t rise like glass towers. It creeps through the broken concrete and clings to whatever light is left. It is not triumphant. It is tenacious.

In therapy, I often feel caught between the two ladders. Clients want to “fix” their lives. They’re not asking how to self-actualize. They’re trying to understand why the scaffolding they built their life on no longer holds. They come in chasing Maslow, but often find Rohr: the painful gift of being broken open. Of discovering that transformation isn’t about climbing higher, but surrendering to what they can no longer control. The Church used to know something about that. Before it became obsessed with branding and metrics and appearing successful, it offered something harder and holier. It didn’t hand out blueprints. It offered bread, wine, and silence. Now it offers sermon series with titles like “Level Up.”

Now, if you’ll all open your hymnals and turn to the section titled Lamentations for a Diminished Thing, we’ll begin.

VII. Hymn from the Hollowed Place

We walk inside a hollowed mine,
calling it a city.
The strength is gone,
but the echo stays
the sound of something once sturdy
collapsing quietly beneath the hymns.

The workers come,
the mothers come,
those who once built with hands and prayers.
Now they speak in scattered tongues:
therapy words,
diagnosis words,
verses with the marrow boiled out.

They say,
“I don’t know what I believe anymore,”
and Christ does not correct them.
He listens.
He stays.
He does not explain the silence.
He does not rebuild the tower.
He gathers what’s left,
kneels in the dust,
and calls it holy.
Let the hymn echo a moment longer. 

* The sanctuary settles. An infant coos. A mother snaps her fingers through gritted teeth. Somewhere, a cough stumbles through the silence like an amen with no conviction. The air shifts, not quite reverent, not quite restless. * 

And now, beloved, let us speak plainly of what’s become of Babel.

The Babel story was never just about language. It was about the illusion of unity: everyone speaking the same tongue, chasing the same goal, convinced that ambition itself was holy. It is easy to hear that same cadence today. In politics, in the media, even in ministry, everyone is talking. No one is listening. Each angle is convinced it is speaking sense while the other just refuses to understand. We have built towers of ideology, platforms of performance, and digital sanctuaries where clarity is promised but rarely delivered. The noise is constant, and underneath it all is something quieter, something heavier. Loneliness.

The digital age did not invent our disconnection, but it gave us new ways to perform it. We are more visible than ever, but harder to reach. We curate instead of converse. We present rather than participate. Even therapy reflects this shift. I have clients ask for strategies to “win” arguments with their spouse, or to navigate coworkers who believe all the wrong things. There is less interest in what lies beneath the tension, less curiosity about the grief behind the anger. Fewer people want to explore how we got so fractured in the first place. The goal is to be right, not to be known.

We see the pattern everywhere. Just east of Rockford, the Chrysler plant in Belvidere has been silent for two years. The workers were told it would reopen. Elected officials made promises. Speeches were given, photos taken, federal dollars pledged. But the doors remain closed. What used to provide has become a backdrop for performance. Communities like Belvidere and Rockford don’t need more visibility. They need something real to hold. And too often, they are handed slogans instead of support.

The Church once served as a counterweight to all this. It was an embodied community, stubbornly local, where you sat beside people you did not entirely like and still called them brother or sister. It held tension instead of amplifying it. Now, many churches have become political performance halls, leaning into culture wars, doubling down on certainty, and selecting congregants more for their alignment than their presence. The container that once held our contradictions has become another venue for tribal identity.

Like Babel, our institutions are still speaking. Loudly. But the language has become a kind of noise; a transactional, anxious, package of clarity, rarely offering connection. Rohr calls this the first half of life obsession: the need to define, divide, and defend. It is what happens when you mistake your ego for your soul. Institutions, whether churches or governments, begin to forget how to hold tension and instead start manufacturing enemies. And the cost is not only political. It is spiritual. The soul needs contradiction. It needs silence. It needs to know that not every confusion is a crisis. These are often the things forgotten in Babel’s shadow.

When I feel the noise rising, whether political, religious, or digital, I go outside. I dig. I plant. I try to listen for something older than all of this. There was a community garden I used to help tend near the west side of Rockford. It was not much. A few raised beds. A compost bin that leaned like an old man in the wind. But things grew there. Beans curled up a broken fence post. Tomatoes burst, sometimes too early, sometimes just in time. A neighbor once came by and said, “I didn’t think anything good could grow here.” I nodded. We stood in the dirt together for a long time and did not say much more.

In the therapy room, it is the same: people come in with what is left, hoping something can grow from it. And it can. But not quickly, not loudly, and not from certainty. Rohr speaks of the smallness required for transformation, the idea that to meet God, or truth, or peace, we usually have to come undone first. Not in the polished, Instagrammable way, but in the desert kind of way. The garden knows that too. Things must fall apart, decay, become unrecognizable. Only then can they feed something new. Rockford has taught me this. So has the Church, even in its decline. Even in the silence of those boarded-up sanctuaries. Maybe especially there.

Babel didn’t end with a curse. It ended with dispersion. With people being sent back to their places, their languages, their particular lives. The tower fell, but the story didn’t. It just stopped trying to reach heaven by force. I walk through my community, meditating on this as I pass shuttered buildings, familiar faces, and the quiet persistence of people who keep showing up. So many of them carry disappointment like an old coat they cannot quite throw away. The plant closed. The school consolidated. The church split. And still, they show up. 

They coach Little League. They check on their neighbors. They bring casseroles when someone dies. What was scattered was not destroyed. It was returned. Replanted. The people here do not pretend it is all okay, but they keep showing up to what is theirs. The edge of our grief, it turns out, may also be the edge of new growth. Not in the tower, but in the ground. Not in the grand, but in the particular.

I keep a copy of Wendell Berry’s “The Peace of Wild Things” on my office wall. Clients often pause at it, the way you might pause at a roadside chapel with a cracked door. It says more in a few lines than I can in a session:

When despair for the world grows in me…
I come into the peace of wild things…

Maybe the Church still can be that place—not the tower, but the field. Not the broadcast, but the quiet. Maybe faith, like the land, is most alive when it’s no longer being mined.

Thursday, July 24, 2025

Eutrapelian LandMinds: From Blisters to Blessings: Why ordinary is the new radical: Losing track, meaningful pain, talking to strangers, and more... By Peco and Ruth Gaskovski

 


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From Blisters to Blessings: Why ordinary is the new radical

Losing track, meaningful pain, talking to strangers, and more...

By Peco and Ruth Gaskovski


Road with Cypress and Star
Road with Cypress and Star by Vincent van Gogh, 1890 — a depiction of the Christian allegory of Pilgrim’s Progress

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Minutes spent on internet: 0

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Km walked: 117

Restaurants and cafés visited: approx. 30

Strangers turned into friends over eleven days: 22

We time-traveled with a group of radicals in Spain. Together we ambled on paths forged by Celtic tribes in search of the end of the world four thousand years ago, feasted on tables laden with jamón serrano, pulpo (octopus), and empanadas (introduced by the Visigoths), and prayed in a 9th century pre-schism church where St. Francis of Assisi once knelt.

A pilgrim we met along the way from England related how her young co-workers no longer had a notion of connecting with people in real life. Starting their days with swiping, working on screens all day long, only to return home to reels of other people living lives online1. We hear of twenty-somethings who long to have a family, who write to inquire how to live a “normal, grounded life”, and truly have no idea where even to start. How do you meet people? What do you talk about? What do you do?

We conceived of the 117 km journey we covered on foot as a pilgrimage “out of the Machine”, a sudden exit from lives dominated by screentime, sedentariness, and isolation, and a sunlit plunge into an embodied and human-centered experience. The ordinary yet ancient human rites of walking together, sharing meals, praying, talking for long hours—and suffering aches and pains together—cracked open doors to what one pilgrim expressed as “startling intimacy” with strangers.

It was a total mental and physical overhaul. We might be back “in” the Machine, yet the many lessons learned on the pilgrimage have followed us home, freshly inspiring us to shake off the shackles of unwanted technologies in our lives. We share here with you not just our experience, but offer a translation of Camino insights into everyday life.

We hope that you too might feel prompted to commit yourselves to a simple truth: to be ordinary is to be radical.

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Radical space, radical speed

Walking along the road to Portomarín

It’s easy to underestimate how much time we spend in our heads. When looking at our smartphone screens, thinking we’re reading about something “out there” in the world, we aren’t “out there” at all, but “in here”, inside of our minds. Even when not on our devices, we are often in our heads, caught up in a mental swirl of thoughts and feelings.

Modernity encourages us to value our subjectivity above all else, to venerate our own headspace and the contents therein. It can be comfortable, but it’s also alienating. People might be sitting beside each other at a supper table, or on a bus, but staring into their screens, absorbed in different headspaces, lost in totally different universes. Households of parents and children can co-exist physically, yet have little in common.

Pilgrimage offers a cure for this alienation.

On the Camino, everybody walks the same road, mile after mile. We suffer the same blisters and sweltering heat. Most of the pilgrims in our group had phones, but they weren’t much used. Most of us, rather than being in a screen-based headspace, were in a different kind of space. A foot-space. A land-space. A conversational-space.

Screens pull you into an artificial reality, but pilgrimage pulls you out, and grounds you—literally. Each step anchors you to a particular spot on the earth, imprinting your footstep. It’s your momentary mark on the world. Forty-thousand momentary marks later, you are done.

The next day you do it again.

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Photo courtesy of fellow pilgrim Jennifer Vincent

The world reveals itself to those who travel by foot.

-Werner Herzog

Speed affects how we see the world. At 3 mph, walking pace, we can better perceive our surroundings, have time to process what we observe, and carry on conversations. We think and talk more easily when walking. Time gets slowed down.

When the entire world seems to spin at 100 Mbps, walking is a radical speed. As one of our fellow pilgrims, 

, observed, it’s a blessing

…to spend several days in a row at a walking pace. Yes, it was hard, and painful too, but also good to see how most people in the history of mankind have traveled—at a walking pace. As I settle into this next stage of my life (in retirement), I have been praying that God would show me how best to use the time I have. I think a lesson from the Camino is that it’s okay to do life at a walk—it doesn’t have to be at 60 mph down the highway. And walking long distances means pacing myself if I’m going to finish the journey.

Losing track

The only “tracking” of time or place took the form of stamps collected at cafés, hotels, churches, roadside stands, etc. A tradition dating back centuries, it is also a most wonderful diary of all the places visited.

T.S. Eliot’s J. Alfred Prufrock measured out his days in coffee spoons2, but the convergence of Wi-Fi, wearable tech, and GPS have sent us over the deep end in measuring and tracking our daily lives. Beyond counting steps, calories, and sleeping hours, iPhones can now track your mood, sexual activity, toothbrushing, hours spent in daylight—you name it, and it can be measured.

Teens share their location and keep track of each other in order to “to manage anxiety, track social dynamics and feel less alone.” Tracking offers the comfort of control, but can lead us into micromanaging our lives, leave us feeling like our own science experiment, and result in a never-ending loop of “anxiety, stress, and never being content.” And as one former self-tracker observed, “If you’re lost in life, you won’t find answers in the data you’re collecting…”3

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“Language App” of useful Spanish phrases and daily hiking routes

While some pilgrims did wear step counters, we all seemed to revert to an era of trust and proximal “sensing”. We often did not know our exact location, but used a simple paper map and the km marking stones to make our way. We did not keep track of each other’s location, but trusted that we’d all eventually arrive; and we did. Indeed, we were never quite sure where our three children (aged 13, 17, and 19) were, except that they were chatting with fellow pilgrims a few kilometers ahead or behind, and trusted that we’d encounter them at the end of the day. 

 captured the experience perfectly:

You see, on the Camino, there is no map. I mean, sure, you can buy a map. But that’s not how this Way is navigated.

Instead, you step onto the path and then you simply follow it. Every once in a while you will see a marker with a shell and a yellow arrow directing you to turn. But that is your only guidance other than the movement of any pilgrims who may be visible in front of you (and let’s hope that they’re following the arrows!). You never know if you’re about to begin an ascent or a descent, about to switch to dirt or pavement, about to enter or leave a city or village or town or just walk all day on a sun-drenched dirt path with nary a cafe or fountain to be seen. If you’re hungry, you must wait for a cafe; thirsty, wait for a fountain; sore, wait for a place to soak your feet. Sometimes it comes and sometimes it doesn’t…

Your job is not to know the way, you see. Your job is only to walk and to follow the arrows when they appear and to take what comes to you for the gift that it is.

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Photo courtesy of fellow pilgrim Jennifer Vincent

When we don’t know exactly where we are, yet trust the path, we can open ourselves up to surprise, curiosity, wonder. There is liberation in not having to monitor our location or activities, in freeing ourselves from obsessive metrics-checking, and instead having our full attention engaged in the moment.

One evening, Dixie and our older son sang a hymn by John Henry Newman before supper, reminding us that all we need to see is the step right in front of us:

Lead, Kindly Light, amidst th'encircling gloom,
Lead Thou me on!
The night is dark, and I am far from home,
Lead Thou me on!
Keep Thou my feet; I do not ask to see
The distant scene; one step enough for me

No opting out

A man on a thousand mile walk has to forget his goal and say to himself every morning, 'Today I'm going to cover twenty-five miles and then rest up and sleep.

from War and Peace by Leo Tolstoy

On a pilgrimage, there is no opting out. If you get tired of reading this article, you can click or scroll and look for something more interesting. The internet does not ask for your commitment. Our culture often encourages the implicit belief that nobody should be stuck doing anything that might bother or bore them for too long. The freedom to opt out, unsubscribe, get a refund, is a core value of the technological world.

Pilgrimage inverts this expectation. The path must be followed. There is simply no other way. There are side paths, of course, detours, different roads to Santiago, but you still have to walk (or bike, or wheelchair). People with serious injury or illness can skip parts, and yet, we observed that even partially injured people often felt compelled to keep walking, or limping.

A couple of days into the walk, our daughter got a touch of heat stroke. She had to cab the last kilometer to a hotel, and missed the rest of the day with a fever. Next morning, though still ailing a little, she was on the road again. She later said that if she had been even half as sick while at home, she would have skipped classes and spent the day in bed.

Often, when you can’t opt out of a difficult situation, you discover a resilience you didn’t know you had.

“Muros de pedra seca”, stone walls built without mortar, stretch for endless miles along pastures in Galicia.

Meaningful pain

The pilgrimage, for all its ordinary blessings, might sound wonderful—and it was. But if we were to tell you that you would spend the next six days walking until your muscles ached, your feet throbbed, your body neared exhaustion, all while the sun burned down on you and made you yearn for an ice-cold drink, you might think that you’d have a miserable time ahead of you.

You might think that spending your days bathed in pleasure and comfort would make you happier. After all, who wants pain?

Yet our exposure to pleasure, if excessive, can backfire. As noted by Anne Lembke, author of Dopamine Nation, “with prolonged and repeated exposure to pleasurable stimuli, our capacity to tolerate pain decreases, and our threshold for experiencing pleasure increases.”

If you get too much pleasure, it’s harder to experience the sweetness of it; and if you don’t experience enough pain, even a little can seem worse than it actually is. Beyond that, a modicum of pain in life, in the form of daily struggle, effort, toil, boredom, might be precisely what makes our pleasures more pleasurable. Walk twelve miles in the hot sun, and even the simplest meal or cold drink becomes a quiet joy.

Our quiet joys included anything from “cerveza” to a meal of pulpo (octopus) or yet another ice cream cone (see Dixie’s post on All the ice cream I at in Spain! )

Our devices, so ingeniously designed to give us “frictionless” experiences, often leave us hollow and unhappy, precisely because they are effortless, struggle-less, diminishing our capacity to experience ordinary pleasures optimally.

Physical struggle and (a degree of) pain can also encourage much-needed self-reflection. Research on the psychological impact of the Camino revealed that it helped pilgrims to,

address their spiritual issues, set priorities, and learn the truth about themselves, often difficult and painful but usually liberating. They described this process as “removing the mask” or “removing the make-up.”…Thanks to the Camino, they were able to distance themselves from everyday life and observe the value of matters they had not appreciated previously. It was a time of struggle not only with their physical endurance but also with their own thoughts.

From pixels to portraits

When two people meet, each one is changed by the other so you've got two new people.

-John Steinbeck

On the final day of the pilgrimage, after we had reached the great cathedral in Santiago, many of us had to keep stretching and shifting our feet during the Mass to relieve the soreness. We had all pushed through some pain. It was, separate from any spiritual feeling, a source of unity. When people have gone through a struggle together, they relate better.

And deeper connections happened. Each of the pilgrims in our group had different motivations for signing up, some religious, some not. Yet despite these differences, something else emerged: a shared purpose. Our different headspaces, different universes, joined and overlapped.

Walking the path, day after day, had created a bond between us. How often, when we’re online interacting with “friends”, do we wish our connection was more than just digital? And we did not have to force it. We did not need to devise a gimmick or ideology to make it happen. It was the byproduct of what happens when human beings share a direction, and exert a common effort. Relationship plus sweat equals healthy society.

And walking a common path did not override our individual differences. The sameness of the experience did not make us all the same. It actually turned out to be a foundation in which we could see our differences more richly.

Our pilgrim group included people of different church denominations—Catholic, Orthodox, and Protestant—and some who followed non-Christian spiritualities and philosophies. The youngest was 13, and the oldest were in their 70s. One pilgrim was surprised to discover how well he got along with another pilgrim, especially after learning they shared contrary political views. On social media, two people like this might be at each other’s throats within 280 characters.

Online, we don’t experience each other in the fullness of who we actually are, but simplified, abstracted, fragmented, curated. It’s little wonder our society has become so obsessed with “identity”; we are no longer complex individuals, to be discovered gradually over time through shared experiences in the real world. The online reality reduces us to a false theoretical essence: our political party, race, religion, sexuality, and other crude categories.

The pilgrimage, again, inverted this experience. Our abstract digital identities fell into the background, while our faces, our tone of voice, our gestures, our gait, the way we laughed, the stories we told—a more vivid image of our actual identities—came into the foreground. The pilgrimage turned us into portraits rather than pixelated representations and profile blurbs.

Talking to real people? Getting to know each other face-to-face? It might sound ordinary, but in a world where people are spending more and more time hanging out in isolated digital universes, ordinary is the new radical.

Finisterre or “the end of the world”

Talking with strangers

There are no strangers here, only friends you haven’t met.

(possibly) William Butler Yeats

We did not know any of the pilgrims who joined our group. In the beginning, they were mere names on a list, small icons on a screen; in the end, they had been incarnated into real people with rich and fascinating lives.

The openness that each of us brought on this journey made us fast friends seemingly overnight. One way of turning strangers into friends is to start with this conviction: there are no boring people. If we insist on seeing through our assumptions and outward surfaces, then we are bound to discover something wonderful in the newly-minted grandmother, or the 13-year old brimming with “punny” jokes, or the avocado farmer.

On the Camino, talking with strangers is a given. Everyone who passes by greets you with a “Buen Camino”, offers encouragement with a smile, and if walking at the same pace, is often quick to enter a conversation that can last from a few minutes to hours.

We asked our 13-year old how he struck up conversations with pilgrims along the way. He looked at us dumbfounded: “What do you mean how? You say hello, make a comment about what you see around you, or the weather, and then you end up talking about their grandkids, shark teeth, or why they like convertibles…”

Talking with strangers makes you happier, and not just on pilgrimage. Researchers Nick Epley and Juliana Schroeder invited commuters in Chicago to talk to someone on the train. Although participants had expected that it would be preferable to “sit in silence rather than talk”, they found that chatting with a stranger improved their mood. Even chatting with a barista at Starbucks, rather than just buying a coffee in silence, resulted in a better mood and greater feeling of connection.4

Prompted by these findings, Gillian Sandstrom created a “strangers’ scavenger hunt game”, which involved talking briefly with a stranger who matched a specific description (e.g. “someone wearing a hat”, or “someone drinking a coffee”). After a week of this, people felt more confident in their conversational skills, and less worried about rejection. Imagine a whole society encouraging more everyday contact between people, not with any ideological agenda, but just to encourage ordinary trust?

It’s actually happening in some places. Switzerland has introduced the opposite of self-checkout: The Plauderkasse or “chat-checkout”. Cashiers and “conversation volunteers” at this grocery checkout take time to personally connect with customers. It’s proven hugely popular, especially among seniors, and there are plans to expand the practice across the entire grocery store chain.

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Meanwhile, the Swiss have also introduced the opposite of the dating app, “hiking instead of swiping”. Rather than meeting people online, why not climb a mountain with a group of eligible young men and women searching for a close relationship? It’s a bit like the Camino, just at higher altitude.

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Newspaper article from the daily local newspaper in Basel, Switzerland, June 2025

Generosity to strangers can also build trust. On the Camino, there’s a tradition, apparently originating in Naples, where people will pay ahead for a coffee or meal for anyone who can’t afford it. More than that, the Camino encourages a generosity of spirit between strangers: an openness to smile, to talk, to offer assistance if needed. Such small, humanizing acts cost us little time or money, but can be more meaningful than we realize.

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The “ordinary” social reality of the Camino—sharing struggles, getting to know each other in person, acts of generosity—are available to all of us, all the time. They are not pilgrimage realities, they are human realities. They require effort, risk and vulnerability, and the practice of social skills. The result—to recall the words of one of our pilgrims—is “startling intimacy”.


The Ordinary Radical

Two years ago we introduced the 3Rs of Unmachiningrecognizing the harms of technology, removing unwanted technologies from our lives, and returning to a more grounded way of living. Our pilgrimage was a microcosm of the 3Rs, as it took us out of our screen-dominated lives, away from social media, AI chatbots, and myriad online bubbles, and returned us to a simple, natural, relationship activity: walking on a spiritual path.

While the Camino is a Catholic pilgrimage5 to the tomb of St. James, the lessons of the pilgrimage are universal. There are religious rites, yet there are also human rites, ordinary things we have always done, and that we must keep doing, if we want to remain and grow as human beings.

Technology keeps trying to uproot the ordinary with promises to make it extraordinary. It replants us in a digital garden, but there, our roots wither as it is not our native ground. So we may feel isolated, anxious, empty, used, or distorted.

Our real home is out here, on real ground.

So be a radical: go for a long walk, push through the pain, lose track, don’t opt out, meet people face-to-face, talk to strangers. Embrace the ordinary.

The Sower by van Gogh
The Sower by Vincent van Gogh, 1888

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